Our expectations for ourselves can either push us toward greater success or be our biggest trap.
It’s one of the biggest differences in mindset between successful and unsuccessful people. And also, how happy or unhappy one is at any given point in time
I still struggle with managing my expectations, especially toward myself.
7 ways to manage your Self-expectations
1: Self-Assess yourself by asking yourself why you want something
Simon Sinek wrote a powerful book that changed my thinking forever – "Start with why."
We become slaves and victims to our expectations if we do not begin with why. They control us for no reason.
2: Focus on what you have control over
The key to being successful and happy while working towards your goal is to focus on the things you have control over.
Focus on what you have control of = success and happiness
Focus on things you don’t have control over = pain and suffering
3: Get your Priorities Right
How much of what others say is part of your priorities at that moment?
The fact is, if you don’t prioritize your life, someone else will. This is part of the first point, which reminds you to know why you want a particular result.
And setting your priorities will help you make sure they are aligned with your highest priorities. Otherwise, don't be surprised if you're just aspiring for more emptiness and purposelessness to fulfill other people's desires.
4: Setting healthy expectations
Everyone knows we should set big goals. But how do we prioritize our wellbeing to be in line with our expectations?
Be realistic in what you expect from yourself and others.
This can be hard but it takes grace to set BIG goals and make them sound realistic.
You just have to factor in your abilities and limitations while never allowing them hold you back.
Read the full seven list here:
https://stevewinroad.com/how-to-manage-self-expectations/